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105 Confident Ways to Flirt With a Guy (No Games, No Stress)
- Yaw Amoateng
- 2 hours ago
- 6 min read
What is in this article?
Flirting isn’t about being perfect, you have to be playful, and a little bold. Still, figuring out how to flirt with a guy can feel confusing. You might wonder if you're coming on too strong, not strong enough, or if he’s even picking up on your signals at all.
Sound familiar?
You’re not alone. So many people overthink flirting, turning something that should feel light and fun into an awkward mental game. But it doesn't have to be that way. Flirting is really just about showing interest in a way that feels true to you and gets his attention without forcing it.
If you’ve ever caught yourself replaying a conversation in your head, questioning a smile you gave, or feeling stuck on how to make a move, this post is for you.
Let’s talk about how to flirt in a way that feels natural and confident, how to read the moment, and how to keep things fun without putting too much pressure on yourself. Ready? Let’s get into it.
105 Straight Ways To Flirt With A Guy
So, let’s get to the good stuff. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “What can I say or do to let him know I’m into him, without making it awkward?” this list is for you. Here are 105 simple, flirty, and straight-up effective ways to grab his attention, keep the vibe fun, and leave him wanting more.
Flirty Tips (Real, Relatable, & Playful)
"You know you’re kinda my type... dangerously confident and probably a bad idea."
"Don’t give me that look unless you plan to do something about it."
"I’m not saying I like you, but if I did… would that scare you?"
"Wow, that voice. Are you trying to distract me or is it unintentional?"
"You know, if I were into guys like you, we’d be in trouble."
"So... what do you think would happen if we were left alone for a bit?"
"Stop flirting. It’s working too well."
"Is it just me or do we have ridiculous chemistry right now?"
"Keep talking like that and I might have to sit closer."
"You smell really good... do you do that on purpose, or is it just unfair genetics?"
"Careful, I fall for good banter and even better eyes."
"If I let you kiss me, do you promise not to make it weird?"
"I should warn you, I’m really good at getting into trouble."
"You’re definitely flirting with me… just wanted to confirm."
"I wasn’t planning to flirt tonight… then you showed up."
"If I sat on your lap right now, would you know what to do?"
"You talk a big game… are you just as bold in real life?"
"I can tell you’re trouble… the fun kind."
"I bet I could distract you with just one whisper."
"I dare you to say that again - but closer.
“I probably shouldn’t say this… but you’d look really good messing up my plans.”
“You’ve got this cocky thing going on - is that natural, or do you rehearse it?”
“If I keep smiling like this around you, people are going to start asking questions.”
“You keep saying the right things… should I be worried?”
“Be honest… how often do you use that look to get what you want?”
“You seem like the kind of guy who doesn’t ask for permission. Am I right?”
“You keep talking like that and I might accidentally like you.”
“I feel like you’re trouble. And I really want to find out what kind.”
“So when were you planning to make your move, or do I have to help you out?”
“You’re giving me ideas I probably shouldn’t have in public.”
“If we keep locking eyes like that, something’s going to happen.”
“You’re kind of stealing my attention right now... and I’m not mad about it.”
“Is this your normal vibe, or are you trying to flirt with me?”
“I’m warning you - I flirt back.”
“You know, I had plans tonight… but then you happened.”
“You’ve got that look in your eye… and I kind of like where it’s going.”
“Tell me something I shouldn’t know about you.”
“You’re lucky I’m behaving right now.”
“Say that again, but this time, make it sound like an invitation.”
“If we keep talking like this, one of us is going to end up in trouble.”
“You're really pushing your luck with that smile… but I’ll allow it.”
“I should stop looking at you like this... but I don’t want to.”
“Do you usually make people this nervous, or am I special?”
“I wasn’t planning on flirting today… and now look at us.”
“You sound confident. I like that in someone I might accidentally kiss.”
“If I asked what you're thinking right now, would I regret it... or enjoy it?”
“You’re giving me mixed signals… keep going.”
“You smell like a really bad decision I’m about to make.”
“Do you always lean in that close, or is this a me thing?”
“So, is flirting part of your job description or just a natural talent?”
Sweet, Suggestive, & Slightly Dangerous
“I should warn you… I tend to get attached to people who make me laugh.”
“You’re kind of addictive, you know that?”
“Say something flirty so I know it’s real.”
“You keep giving me that look. Are we going to talk about it or pretend it’s innocent?”
“If I said I was thinking about kissing you, would that ruin the vibe… or fix it?”
“I like the way you talk. And I’m starting to wonder what else you’re good at.”
“There’s something about your voice that makes me want to hear it closer.”
“I don’t usually flirt like this… unless it’s worth it.”
“You’re dangerously close to becoming my favorite distraction.”
“So when are you taking me out? Or do I have to plan our first date too?”
“You’re not good for my focus - but I’m okay with that.”
“Every time you text me, I smile. So now you have to keep doing it.”
“Don’t tempt me... unless you're ready to back it up.”
“I like your energy. You give me that ‘kiss me and see what happens’ vibe.”
“You’re making it hard to pretend I’m not interested.”
“It’s cute how you act like I’m not already into you.”
“I bet you’re the type to flirt and leave people thinking about you for days.”
“You really should come with a warning label.”
“Do you have any idea how distracting you are right now?”
“I’m not flirting… I’m just letting you notice me.”
“I was fine before you showed up with those eyes and that smile.”
“Is this your idea of subtle, or do you actually want me to blush?”
“You're making it really difficult for me to focus on anything else right now.”
“You look like a really good time… and maybe just a little dangerous.”
“Tell me the truth… do you always get this much attention, or am I just special?”
Bold Moves, Teasing Confidence & “Oh No She Didn’t” Energy
“If I kissed you right now, would you stop talking or kiss me back?”
“You're lucky I like confidence. Otherwise, you'd be in trouble.”
*“I dare you to make me blush.”
“You’re giving main character energy… and I kind of want to be in the scene.”
“Keep looking at me like that and I’ll start thinking it means something.”
“Are you flirting with me because you want something or just because I’m irresistible?”
“You’re kinda my favorite part of today. Don’t let it go to your head.”
“If you weren’t already in my head, I’d be more productive right now.”
“You should know… I’m terrible at pretending I don’t like someone.”
“You say the right things. Now I’m just wondering what else you’re good at.”
“I’m not that easy to impress… but you’re making progress.”
“Are you flirting with me or just naturally this charming?”
“One more flirty comment and I’m sitting on your lap.”
“You’re lucky I have self-control. Most of the time.”
“Keep being this smooth and I might let you buy me dessert too.”
“You’re the kind of guy who makes women lose sleep - aren’t you?”
“Tell me what you’re thinking. Unless it’s innocent - then never mind.”
“I’d flirt back harder, but I’m already imagining the kiss.”
“You’re clearly trying to be the most interesting person in the room. It’s working.”
“Careful… I flirt better than I look. And that’s saying something.”
“You talk like you could ruin me… and I’m not sure I’d stop you.”
“If I let you in, are you planning to stay for a while or just visit?”
“You really think you’re my type, huh?… You might be right.”
“You're kind of messing with my concentration, and I'm not mad about it.”
“Whatever game you’re playing, I like it. Want to raise the stakes?
“A guy like you is never single. Or are you hiding her somewhere?”
“You don’t dress like someone without a girlfriend.”
“You give off ‘trouble’ energy. Is that accurate?”
“You’re obviously the type that women chase.”
“So... what kind of woman does a guy like you go for?”
